These boys will not nap in their crib. They will sleep there at night, but no way during the day. So we find different spots for them to sleep. I don't want them too used to the swing. Rex is picky. Sometimes he likes the swing, sometimes he likes his papasan chair. Ren is not girly. This swaddle just happens to fit him a little better and it was a hand me down from Val. David will be so mad. He is secure in his manhood. He can wear pink and be tough! Right?